So I have been sort of putting off really riding Coda. Partly because I have so many others to ride, after all he is only 3 and Keith does a great job with him. But mostly because there is a part of me that is afraid that he will make a little move, I will tense up, and he will feel that and react (as any horse would do) and I will ruin all his good training.
Keith has been getting me to longe him, and then sit on him and walk, and then finally trot for about 5 steps until I turn to him like a green little kid rider and say, "can I please walk now?". Then I get off and promptly get on the big, green, just broke bucking and spooking baby I have in training, and full of confidence and gusto ride off! But I really think it is that I don't want to react the way I know my body will (due to my mind of course) and set him back.
It is funny feeling this way, because I never have before in my life, and I can relate to many of my adult students now, who say to me, "I am afraid, but I know I shouldn't be." I now can say, baby steps....look at me!
Yesterday I was feeling brave, so I took Coda down to the jump ring and got right on. Keith has given him (and now me) the tools to use if he decides to act like a 3 year old. I get on and practice the stopping and bending and softening him over and over until I feel like I can do it at any time. I then trotted around and was amazed at how light and soft he was. He knows how to accept the bit and rein contact, he is so light and flexible off my leg that he can bend, leg yeild, counter bend. I trotted all round the ring, in and out of jumps and even over trot poles. And Coda never put a foot wrong.
So today I was even braver, and we started right out with bending and softening. Coda was light and responsive, like he had stayed up all night studying! I walked, trotted and cantered in the most lovely round bent frame. I was so thrilled that I thought I might cry. My pony feels fabulous, I feel confident and great, and I am so excited about how light and swingy and wonderful he feels going! I did take a little video, just so I could watch is 800 times today (and show everyone who I could corner at the tack store, and the barn). Just wanted to let you all know how fabulous today was. This is the reason why we ride, and I hope you all share the same feeling with your horses, or ponies. Sometimes the little things mean more than any ribbon or show!
Christan